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My Social Media Hiatus

4/13/2016

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​Since 2012, which was the year that I created my Twitter account, and even before that when I had just started my original blog, JustaTeenWriting, social media has been a huge part of my life. It sounds silly to say that, because of course it has been--social media is a big part of most anyone from 18-30 years old's lives, and then many younger and older than that (statistics just say that the majority of people on social media are between those ages). When I say that it's been a huge part of my life, though, I don't just mean that I check my Facebook feed often, or respond to my friends on Snapchat every day. Social media has been a tool to spread my writing, my thoughts, and my business (Inspire Thread Company). However there's something about social media that I also hate, and it's the absorbing feeling that it sometimes has on you. I'm sure that not everyone feels this way, but sometimes when you focus so much on something, like growing a following on social media and spreading your brand, you can become too consumed with that. Hence my social media hiatus.

It's a love-hate relationship. I would never want to give up my platform, because I so love that I get to connect with you all here and meet people from around the world through a cellphone or laptop screen, but sometimes social media can crush you, and that's the adverse effect of what it should be. Over the past few months, I realized that I had become too consumed with social media, and that I didn't want something to have more control over my time than I did, and social media was becoming that. So being a person that 100% believes in their control over their own life and their own thoughts, I decided to take a week break (well, five days, because I couldn't QUITE take it for a week) from all social media platforms. 

I immediately deleted all of my social media apps from my phone, and logged out of any social media accounts on my laptop. This was a good thing, because the first day of my break, I--out of habit--tried to check my Instagram account. No luck, it was gone!

Though it was hard to break my habit the first day, it felt great not to be on social media the days following, and not to have to think about it. I was able to focus on the launch of my new business...

LOOK, I ANNOUNCED WHEN IT'S LAUNCHING! ------>


​....And I was also able to focus on my writing, which is my passion in life, and I was able to really work on my new novel. 

​So would I suggest this? Absolutely. If you're feeling drowned by social media, or find that you're spending more time than you would like on it, then delete every avenue of reaching your social media accounts, and take a break. A week won't have you missing TOO much, and if all else fails, and you HAVE to know what's going on, you can pick up a newspaper and grab a coffee at a cafe. You'll probably learn more than you would from social media, anyway. (MAYBE) 

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​Thanks SO much for tuning in, guys, and I look forward to connecting with you on my social media! I plan on blogging more often now that I'm settled in my new state, and have been putting a lot of fun stuff on my Snapchat account recently. To add me on Snapchat, just screenshot or take a photo of my snap code.

Go to "Add Friends" on your settings area, click "Add by Snapcode", and click your screenshot of my snapcode photo! ​
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YALLFEST! And a "What am I Reading?" Update

11/17/2015

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Hey y'all! Why am I talking like this, when I'm obviously from Maine and have no accent at all? Because I just attended South Carolina's best YA (Young Adult) book fest! The marvelousness is called YALLfest, and it was incredible.

One of the most interesting parts of the trip, was the fact that I traveled 19 hours to get there. I decided that flights are overrated (Also overpriced... I just could not validate spending $800 on a weekend flight), and also that I had never driven that far in one day, and that everyone should do that at least once. So I dragged my twin sister and my oldest sister along, we rented a car that was much too small for two six-foot-tall people and me (I'm nearly 5'8"), and headed to the land of much nicer weather and plentiful y'alls. 

We left after my Management Information Systems class at 6:00pm Thursday night, and arrived in Charleston at 2:00pm the next day. I then changed extremely quickly, stuffed my book backpack, and made my way  to the YALLCrawl, where select authors did some signings before the big day of panels and signings on Saturday. I met Victoria Aveyard, author of The Red Queen,E. Lockhart, author of We Were Liars and The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks, and Kiera Cass, most notably the author of The Selection Series. I am a HUGE fan of E. Lockhart (if you haven't read We Were Liars, you're REALLY missing out!!), and Victoria Aveyard was an absolute sweetheart. I'm not uploading my photo with Kiera, because I look slightly insane in it. I'm blaming that on the 19-hour drive. Kiera was basically the nicest person on earth, and she gave me The Selection-themed M&Ms for my 19-hour drive. AKA, she's now awesome in my book. 

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NBD, just getting my book signed by @marieluthewriter. #YALLfest #yallfest2015 #signing @yallfest

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The sisters and I then traveled toSesame Burger in Mt. Pleasant, and had some absolutely delicious nachos and sliders. OH, and chocolate milkshakes. How could I forget those!?

The next day was the big day of panels and signings, where I met Carrie Ryan, author of The Forest of Hands and Teeth (If you want a GREAT zombie book, read that one),Scott Westerfeld, author of Uglies, Marie Lu, artist and author of Legend, andAaron Hartzler, author of What We Saw. Cool story about Aaron: 

Aaron had met my blogging parter at PlotBrownies.com, friend and fellow novelist Matt Keenan at TTBF (Teen Texas Book Fest), so it was really great to be able to meet him, too! Aaron is super friendly and really talented. 

Besides the author signings, I also attended a bunch of great panels. My favorite was Gale Foreman's Creativity & Jealousy & Fear & Success with  Marie Lu, Libba Bray, Margaret Stohl, Daniel Handler, and Scott Westerfeld. Just the lineup itself sounds amazing, right? It was sort of like an inside peek at what goes on in the industry in Hollywood, and what successful authors have for insecurities and what the path to fame looks like. 

The night ended with a YA Smackdown where the authors competed in games like Hollywood Squares and Taboo. A select few also read juvenilia, AKA writings from their younger days, which was entirely entertaining. Alexander London, author of Proxy, also sang a death metal song from his made-up death metal frog band from his youth. I don't think I need to tell you how funny that was. 
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Just @alexander_london and his death metal frog band. #yallfest2015 #YALLfest #alexanderlondon #proxy #ya @yallfest

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UM, could a panel get more fabulous?! #YALLfest #yallfest2015 #charleston #travel #authors #panel #veronicaroth #divergent

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And last but absolutely not least, I met a bunch of amazing people in line! That was acutally one of my favorite parts. I love to meet new people, and especially when they're book lovers like myself. And holy was Charleston beautiful!
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After the conference, my sisters and I drove home and talked a ton about our incredible time in the historic city. I can't wait until YALLfest next year, and am considering going to their sister conference in California, YALLwest. 

As far as current reads...I have most recently read Across the Universe by Beth Revis, Everything, Everything by Nicola Yoon, It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini, A Series of Unfortunate Events by Lemony Snicket, The Martian by Andy Weir, and The Girl From Felony Bay by J. E. Thompson. I'm currently reading Proxy by Alexander London.

Did you go to YALLfest this year? Tell me how it was! And catch up with me on social media...

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Short Story: The White Bench on the Left

9/28/2015

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 Hi guys! Here's a quick update on things...

I am currently and FINALLY seeking representation by a literary agent for my newest completed manuscript. It will be two years in November that I have been working on this one, and I am beyond excited to be querying agents. I have also started up a writing blog with my friend Matt Keenan. We're currently posting chapters of our story, We Keep On, on Tuesdays and Fridays. The blog is called Plot Brownies, because our stories are short and sweet! Check it out here: PlotBrownies.com 

I am also back into the swing of college life, and enjoying it again this semester! If you're curious, I attend the University of Maine, and am majoring in Business Marketing. 

Lastly, I am working on my seventh novel, and am about 15,000 words into it now. For those of you who don't speak in word count, that's approximately 60 pages in book form. This novel is more on the contemporary side than anything I've written before, but has a spin of thriller in it. I'm SO excited about this one, and can't wait to see where it goes.

Now that you're all updated... today's post is a short story! I don't think that I've ever posted any of my fiction on here, so this is something TOTALLY different from anything I've posted in the past. It's a story I wrote a few months ago (when I say few, I mean like six). I was going to submit it to magazines for publication, but decided to put it here for you all to read for free! Without further ado, enjoy The White Bench on the Left, a story that I hope will make you smile. 

The White Bench on the Left

     I drove past it every day. To school, back from school, to the store with Mom, back to the house with Mom. It was a white bench that wrapped around a tree. It was the kind of bench that you could sit on and someone could hide from you on the other side. I always hoped that the old man would be there. He wore a white bucket hat and was always painting, unless he was mowing the lawn, which he would do in shorts that came about a foot above his knees. But I always hoped that he’d be painting, perhaps something beautiful. I’d put my nose to the window and breathe in the air that smelt like barbeques and freshly cut grass, and watch the old painting man. He’d sit on that white wraparound bench with blue, red, and green paints spread across a pallet. The back of his easel would stare at me, and I always wondered what he was painting.
     Winter seemed much sadder than the summer, because the old man with the paints and the bucket hat didn’t sit outside, and his lawn wasn’t mowed, and I couldn’t dream about what kinds of things he was painting. By the time the sunny season rolled onto the calendar, I had all but forgotten about the old man, but then there he would be, painting away, adding a few wrinkles to the collection on his face. I once asked Mom if we could stop and talk to the old man. She told me that we couldn’t, because she had errands to run and things to do, and we didn’t want to bother an old man, because his time and his paintings were none of our business. I am going to tell you that I was not one to question, nor disobey my mother. I came home when I was supposed to, I didn’t sneak out when I got older, and I ate all of my vegetables, even if they happened to be brussel sprouts and peas. However, when it came to the old man with the bucket hat and the paintbrush, I couldn’t let the idea of him get away. Going to the old painting man was the first and nearly the last time I ever disobeyed my mother.
     It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon, and I was supposed to be biking to my piano lesson. I was eight years old, and my instructor was close enough that I could bike to her, but not close enough to walk to. My mother was gone running her errands—probably picking up more brussel sprouts and peas, I’m sure I thought—and she wouldn’t be back until just before dinner. I was scheduled to leave at 1:15 to get to my lesson on time, and instead I left at 12:50. I buckled on my black helmet, pulled on my white sneakers, and biked my pink bicycle to the old man with the bucket hat. The sun beat down on my freckled shoulders as I biked, the sounds of birds chirping and cars speeding past me an orchestra in the summer air. I could feel my heart thumping in my chest, more at the notion of disobeying my mother than at actually meeting the old man. I nearly biked right past his house, but felt a burst of courage at the last moment and pulled my breaks. Dust flew up behind my back wheel as I skidded to a halt, and I nearly toppled over, catching myself at the last moment. The old man looked up at me over the easel, the paintbrush paused in his hand. He waved with his other hand, and I waved back. The moment of truth, the saying second: To go, or not to go? I put my kickstand down, looked behind me to make sure that Mom hadn’t followed me, and walked right up to the old man.

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    Hello! My name is Elysia. I've written since I was six years old, and I wrote my first novel when I was twelve. I'm from Maine, and now live in Charleston, South Carolina. As far as random happy things, I've ridden a Clydesdale on the beach in California, zip-lined and swum in caves in Mexico with bats and stalactites, and spoken to an audience of 1,500. I own an old typewriter and one of Pete Wentz from FOB's guitar picks. I love to travel, and have visited nearly every US state, Canada, Bermuda, Puerto Rico, St. Maarten, the US and the British Virgin Islands, Mexico, Jamaica, the Cayman Islands, Curaçao, Bonaire, Aruba, Switzerland, and Barcelona.  I also dream of one day watching the ball drop in New York City. I love to type (I know, I'm a weirdo), and can type approximately 140 WPM, nowhere close to Barbara Blackburn's 212 WPM record, ugh, the overachiever.

    Marketing is one of my passions, and I believe that with it, companies can multiply their business and the effectiveness of their brand.

    My other passions are entrepreneurship and  empowering other young people to beat stereotypical "youngness". Wisdom must be achieved by age, but success is attainable by anyone.


    I talk here about writing my book, the path to publishing, and becoming an entrepreneur.

    Read more about me on my website: www.elysiaregina.com 

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